How to remove this block? Do not be afraid to seek the help of a therapist. Sometimes several sessions are enough; sometimes, it takes more time. The main thing is to decipher the message, which carries infertility, to identify the causes of unconscious rejection, when a woman wants a child, and her body at says no. Often, as a result, one has to admit that a person can only get pregnant via IVF and assisted medicine. However, even IVF success strongly depends on the psychological state of the intended mother.